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  The Kid Whisperer: How to deal with a kid who doesn't like doing chores
Dear Kid Whisperer,
After reading your column, my husband and I realized that our 8-year-old was not doing enough chores. She now does the dishes every night after dinner. Now I am second-guessing myself. The problem is that she really, really hates doing it, and gets upset while she’s cleaning up. It takes her a long time. I feel like, as a ...Read more
  Lori Borgman: Sweating buckets while married to a hottie
I married a hottie. He loves the heat and the sun.
When the summer sun is scorching and most people hide inside to keep from flash frying, he goes outside to do yard work.
I tend toward the cool side. Some like it hot, some like it cold, and for some mysterious reason they tend to marry one another.
Our favorite pastime is playing endless ...Read more
  Survey: Americans would rather discuss politics or religion than what's in their bank accounts
As millions of Americans head home for the holidays, Bankrate’s latest survey finds that there’s one dinner topic that will likely generate more heartburn than the typical conversation taboos about politics or religion: it’s money.
The national opinion poll found that about 3 in 5 U.S. adults (61%) said they would be uncomfortable talking...Read more
  Ex-etiquette: No room for the kids?
Q. The kids’ dad has not set up the kids’ rooms in his apartment yet and it’s been 6 months. They are telling me they want to see their dad, but they are tired of sleeping on the floor. I think it’s finances. I don’t want them to stop seeing their dad, but I understand that they want a bed. What’s good ex-etiquette?
A. Most who ...Read more
  Jerry Zezima: No run-of-the-treadmill machine
For a guy who has often been told to take a hike, I am getting nowhere fast. That’s because I have gone back to the gym, after taking a breather for several weeks, only to discover that you need to be a rocket scientist to use the new treadmills.
The old machines were like me: simple, serviceable, a little outdated, nothing fancy, with moving...Read more
  For drivers on the spectrum, interactions with police can be nerve-wracking
BALTIMORE -- Reginald Person II, who has autism, has never been pulled over by police in real life, but a special program held recently allowed him to practice what would happen to put him more at ease.
Person, 39, of Severn, was one of many attendees of Pathways to Autism’s traffic stop practice event in Howard County. He said it helped him ...Read more
  After losing their son to suicide, they created a fund to buoy their community -- and their spirits
At the start of October, Kristen Coe and her husband, Mark, opened their home to friends and family and neighbors for a backyard gathering and neighborhood scavenger hunt.
Their daughter’s second-grade teacher came. Their son’s rowing coach came. The social worker from their kids’ middle school came. The woman who shared fourth-grade room...Read more
  Send kids to school with a cough or sniffles? Some parents say no way
LOS ANGELES -- During the pandemic, the rules for school attendance with the sniffles were clear, if a bit draconian: Keep a child home from school at any sign of illness.
Since then, school policies have softened significantly. At L.A. Unified, for example, parents are directed to send their children to school if they have a mild cold or cough...Read more
  Seattle students use free tuition to fuel their futures
SEATTLE -- Just after 6 p.m. on a brisk mid-October evening, the hum of conversation filled a physics lab at South Seattle College. Mateo Moreno-McQuarrie leaned over a small whiteboard, debating how to draw an accelerating car.
“It’s gonna be a box on wheels,” he said, grinning to the classmate seated next to him.
It had been a long day...Read more
  Resignations and rainbow removals: What the move to end DEI looks like on one campus
DENVER -- The Pride Lounge at the University of Denver was a colorful conference room adorned with rainbows, LGBTQ-affirming posters and bookshelves crammed with queer literature.
Students of all backgrounds and beliefs could gather there to chat, study and build community, but the space was particularly affirming and welcoming for the campus�...Read more
  My Gig Life: Why I'll always find joy in gig work (even when it stings)
Last year, I got turned down for a project I really wanted. The kind that would have been perfect for my schedule, paid well and involved people I genuinely liked working with. The email was polite, professional and yet it felt like a punch in the gut.
If you've been following along, you know I've been writing about life as a gig worker. ...Read more
  On Gardening: Double Play Candy Corn is a shrub for all reasons
I thought about titling this column "A Shrub for All Seasons." It would be kind of a verbal take off the "Man for All Seasons." But my shrub goes dormant, so I decided the best description would be "A Shrub for All Reasons." Let me explain.
My sister sent me three photos in early October and asked, "How do you like my Double Play Candy Corn ...Read more
  Think you have paranormal activity? Maybe they can help
ATLANTA — Philip Wyatt, a Buckhead hairdresser by trade, also has a side interest that is more unusual than, say, knitting or pickleball: He seeks spirit activity as the head of Georgia Paranormal Investigations.
The volunteer group solicits clients via social media and website georgiaparanormalinvestigations.net, though Wyatt isn’t even ...Read more
  At 93, he's one of Santa Monica's hottest yoga instructors. What's his secret?
LOS ANGELES — Salomon Delgado is one of Santa Monica's hottest yoga instructors.
He's 93 years old.
What?
Let me reiterate: In a city obsessed with youth and brimming with lithe fitness instructors in Lululemon-wear and wireless headsets, a 24 Hour Fitness gym has a secret weapon in Delgado. The nonagenarian yogi has been teaching there for...Read more
  Ask Anna: She asked her friend to DM me to see if I'd cheat
Dear Anna,
I’ve been with my girlfriend for about a year. Things have been great overall. But lately she’s become fixated on one of her close friends, not in a romantic way — more in a spiral of comparison. Her friend is pretty, but so is my girlfriend, except when she makes self-deprecating comments about how she “could never compete�...Read more
  How one neighborhood reduced its carbon emissions by 1,600 metric tons
MINNEAPOLIS -- Mary Britton remembers the distress she felt in the summer of 2019, when images of huge wildfires in Spain and Australia flared up on the internet.
The fires were made worse by climate change, studies showed. Britton, a financial analyst living in Minneapolis, responded by reducing her own carbon footprint.
She insulated her ...Read more
  These plastic Mold-A-Rama animals are about to go extinct
ST. PAUL, Minn. -- St. Paul’s Como Park Zoo announced some unhappy news Thursday morning that triggered a social media outpouring of nostalgia-tinged sadness.
It wasn’t the death of a beloved animal or the closing of a popular exhibit.
The bad news: The Mold-A-Rama machines are going to be removed.
The zoo’s four coin-operated automated...Read more
  The Kid Whisperer: How to enforce limits with your kid in public
Dear Kid Whisperer,
We have a community water park that we go to multiple times per week. We usually bring at least one of my 10-year-old daughter’s friends from the neighborhood. The place is pretty big, so we ask that every hour, my daughter and her friend(s) check back with us so they can get a drink of water and some shade. This helps us ...Read more
  'We love rejects': Inside the queer gardening club that's preserving LA's native flora
The parkway garden sits on a commercial stretch of Glendale's Brand Boulevard. It's a modest patch of native plants, hardly visible from the road.
But this baby plot is the pride and joy of the tight-knit group of green thumbers who tend to it. They gather there every last Sunday of the month for Club Gay Gardens, a garden club catering to ...Read more
  Ex-etiquette: E-biking son needs to wear his helmet
Q. My 14-year-old son saved his money and bought an e-bike at his mother’s home. The stipulation was that he always wears a helmet when riding it. Two of my friends called me recently and told me that my son has been spotted riding around the neighborhood without a helmet. They sent me pictures. His mother isn’t doing anything about it. What...Read more
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- After losing their son to suicide, they created a fund to buoy their community -- and their spirits
 - These plastic Mold-A-Rama animals are about to go extinct
 - Send kids to school with a cough or sniffles? Some parents say no way
 - This 'The Bear'-esque dining experience puts you in the center of the kitchen chaos
 - Ask Anna: She asked her friend to DM me to see if I'd cheat
 






















