Does God fault us if we have a personality that swings from high to low?

on Nov 12, 2025

Personality and character word cloud - handwriting on a napkin with a cup of coffee. Dreamstime/TCA

From the writings of the Rev. Billy Graham

Q: I wish I could have a steady personality, but I’m all over the place. Does God fault us if we have a personality that swings from high to low? – P.T.

A: God wove various personality traits into His created beings. Emotions are not necessarily wrong or sinful. Often, the differences complement one another. Some people have quiet spirits, while others are more outgoing. Some are quick to respond, while others are slow to action.

We shouldn’t despise or deny these differences. If we didn’t experience emotions, we couldn’t know God’s peace and joy. When Jesus was asked what the greatest commandment was, He replied that we should love the Lord our God with all of our heart, soul, and mind (see Matthew 22:37). These three things make up the personality, and no two people are exactly alike. Our Creator is unique, and everything He does is also unique.

Perhaps it surprises many to realize that God experiences emotion, and we are all created in His image. This is a staggering thought, but true. How empty life would be without emotions!

The psalmist declared, “I will praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made” (Psalm 139:14, NKJV). This doesn’t refer only to the human body but everything about us, our minds and emotions. Each person is complex, and while we may have challenges in understanding one another, God perfectly understands everything about us.

We must admit, though, that our emotions can become twisted and even destructive, leading us to do or say things that are harmful to ourselves and others. We must rely on Christ to fill our minds with the things that please Him, reflect His spirit within us, and ultimately bring glory to Him.

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(This column is based on the words and writings of the late Rev. Billy Graham.)