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The untold story of the psychologist who mapped human bonds
In "Searching for Bowlby: The Life of John Bowlby," C.V. Wooster has written a comprehensive biography about the life and work of Dr. John Bowlby, the noted British psychiatrist who devoted most of his career to studying the links of the emotional bond (or lack thereof) between parent/guardian and their child and how the child’s development ...Read more
A thoughtful exploration of how culture, nature and consciousness intertwine
Jane Gallagher’s reflective memoir explores one big question: What does it mean to become conscious, both personally and collectively amid shifting beliefs, power structures and ecological awareness?
If you’ve ever found yourself contemplating how much of what you believe comes from the world around you vs. how much comes from within ...Read more
Lori Borgman: An alarming happening at the grocery store
I set off the alarm at the grocery store over the weekend. I wasn’t going to mention it, but it’s always best to get ahead of a breaking news story. My story, my spin.
I’ve never set off an alarm before.
I take that back. I set off the smoke alarm in the kitchen about once month, but high heat with cast iron does that. Other than that, ...Read more
Ex-etiquette: Dealing with different parenting styles
Q: My ex and I constantly argue about our parenting styles. I'm structured; he's loose. I worry that the differences confuse our kids. He thinks I'm too strict. I think he's too laid back. What is good ex-etiquette?
A: I bet you had similar disagreements when you lived together. One of you gave in or you compromised because the relationship ...Read more
'We can't just teach abstinence': How advice on bed-sharing with a baby is evolving
When Emily Little gave birth to her first child, sleeping together with her baby in bed was a given — despite all the public health messages telling her not to.
"I knew it was something that I wanted to do," said Little, a perinatal health researcher and science communications consultant who has studied cultures around the world that bed-...Read more
Being Grateful Is A Choice
Q: I struggle every year when Thanksgiving approaches. I know I should be more grateful than I am; I just don't know how to get a better handle on it. Help?
Jim: Let's be honest -- we can all use more gratitude. The good news is that the answer is pretty straightforward. We just have to choose to be grateful.
That's what Drs. Les and Leslie ...Read more
A Thanksgiving Turkey to Forget
I'll start by making a few things clear:
I love my father, I love cooking and I love Thanksgiving.
And now that the throat-clearing is done, I can move on to the complaining.
Because of all dishes in all the holidays on the calendar, there's nothing like the Thanksgiving turkey for getting under your skin. And last year, it got under mine ...Read more
This Thanksgiving: Thanks for Not Being Chicken, Moms!
I'm thrilled to have cowritten this piece with Esther Wojcicki, author of "How to Raise Successful People." We think that some of the most thankful people in America this year might be the moms you see on Instagram who let their kids do something new on their own -- and that their kids are super thankful too!
This independence-sharing moment ...Read more
Family guide to new movie releases
'WICKED: FOR GOOD'
Rated PG for action/violence, some suggestive material and thematic material.
What it’s about: The second act of the hit Broadway musical adaptation comes to the screen in part two, in which Glinda truly learns what it means to be "good."
The kid attractor factor: Kids will be drawn to the magical world of Oz, the songs, ...Read more
Ex-etiquette: Separation anxiety
Q: How do I know if my children are truly safe when they move between two homes -- and I rarely talk to their mom? What should I do if something feels "off"? What's good ex-etiquette?
A: This is one of the most common questions I hear from newly separated parents, and it makes perfect sense. When families reorganize, children begin living in ...Read more
Lori Borgman: Story of Fred gets a bit fuzzy
There were no witnesses, but all I said was, “Get Fred off the table and away from the food.” I thought it was a reasonable request, but from the look on her face I was out of line. Who knew a first-grader with beautiful hazel eyes nestled above cherub cheeks could shoot such a menacing look?
I was momentarily intimidated, but I also knew I...Read more
When life knocks you down, read these 6 powerful books for healing, hope and renewal
Life doesn’t hand out road maps for the hard stuff — illness, grief, loss or the quiet, sometimes overwhelming uncertainty that comes after survival. There’s no checklist, no perfect sequence of steps, no easy answers. But books? Books can meet us exactly where we are. They can hold us, challenge us and whisper the truths we need to hear ...Read more
Joy of the game: When losing feels like winning for Morgantown softball legends
In 1998 in Morgantown, West Virginia, a bar owner took over the sponsorship of a local adult softball team. Named Chico’s Bail Bonds after the sponsor of the hapless Bad News Bears little leaguers in the 1976 film of the same name, Chico’s Bondsmen are now immortalized in a new book.
"Sometimes Orange Is Almost Gold: Morgantown’s Misfits ...Read more
Connect With Children By Teaming Up With Them
Q: With a recent change in my job, I'm finally going to be able to spend more time with my family. My kids aren't used to having Dad home much. How can I build and keep up relational momentum with them?
Jim: One of most helpful building blocks to reinforce a strong relationship with our children involves discovering new interests and activities...Read more
We're Here, We're Annoyed and We're Not Gonna Take It Anymore
I'm forming a new political party.
No offense intended to the two major ones we already have, but they stink. OK, well, if I'm being honest, some offense was intended. Currently, we're at "invading Venezuela to distract attention from the Epstein files" levels of incompetence, so a bit of change seems warranted.
I'm going to call my party ...Read more
To stave off smartphones, parents answer the landline's call: 'I can't recommend it highly enough'
MINNEAPOLIS -- Teenagers are generally obsessed with their smartphones. So much so that Kristin Hatling’s family recently encountered a gaggle of them who had brought their screens into a resort’s hot tub.
“My daughter, who’s 11, was like, ‘Mom, all they’re doing is looking at their phones and, like, making kissy faces into them. ...Read more
Nike Plays Shrink to Today's Anxious Kids
Most of us would agree that the slogan "Just Do It" has served Nike pretty well. But this fall the company added a new slogan: "Why Do It?"
And the question is ... why'd they do it? Why did they start asking a deep, philosophical question instead the ol' kick in the pants?
I'm guessing it's because so many kids are "just doing" so very little ...Read more
Ex-etiquette: Putting the children first
Q. Even though my divorce has been final for a year, I sometimes like to spend the day with my ex and the kids. Not taking the chance of her saying no, I put the children first and ask the kids how they would feel if I came along. They say it’s fine, so then I tell their mother that I’d like to come along, and the kids want me to. I can tell...Read more
Family guide to new movie releases
'NOW YOU SEE ME: NOW YOU DON'T'
Rated PG-13 for some strong language, violence and suggestive references.
What it’s about: The Horsemen, a group of high-stakes magicians, reunite with a new generation of aspiring magicians to pull off an international diamond heist.
The kid attractor factor: Kids might be drawn to the magic and illusions ...Read more
Lori Borgman: More than meets the eye to Thanksgiving
We look at paintings of that first Thanksgiving more than 400 years ago, with tables sagging under the weight of wild game, venison, waterfowl, lobster and mussels, corn, beans and pumpkins We often sigh and say, “Life was so simple back then.”
It was simple. Life was so simple that heat in homes came from logs crackling in a fireplace. ...Read more
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