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Lori Borgman: Foggy outlook for paint colors
In case you hadn’t heard, the Pantone color of the year is Mocha Mousse. Mocha Mousse is a scrumptious light milk chocolate. I’m not sure I could have it on the walls and resist a deep dive into my dessert cookbooks.
Mocha Mousse is encouraging because, for years, the chosen colors primarily have been neutrals. There was Drift of Mist (gray...Read more

Awaiting loss, a family’s final reunion uncovers cracks in the foundation
There’s a point early on in James Gilbert’s "Reunion by the Lake" when Grace, entering the twilight of her life as she and her husband Richard confront his terminal illness, loses her grip of a glass in the kitchen, and it breaks in the sink into long sharp slivers.
The moment is the perfect metaphor for the book’s primary storyline.
“...Read more

Honest and easy to understand guide to fearless childbirth
At a recent gathering of my book club, the conversation turned to our pregnancy and delivery stories. This was prompted by the difficult delivery that the host’s daughter-in-law had just been through. Some stories were truly “scary” and even horrifying, while others were not quite as bad — but no one said it was a wonderful and special ...Read more

Is your child desperately seeking attention? 5 signs to look for
In today’s fast-paced world, where work, packed schedules and endless digital distractions compete for our focus, children sometimes struggle to get the attention they need. Although your child probably won’t say it directly, they often signal it through other behaviors.
“Whether a child admits it or not, parents are the center of a child...Read more

The one test that could save your relationship — and make it thrive
My wife and I have been married for almost 40 years. In all that time, I can count on one hand how many weekend afternoons we have spent together. She goes in one direction (shopping, show, friends) and I go in another (house projects, the dog, watching sports). I don’t want to do her activities (she doesn’t even suggest I come along) and ...Read more
It's Not DEI, It's Corporate Culture That's to Blame
When President Donald Trump blamed the hiring of disabled FAA employees for a midair crash in Washington, D.C., between a passenger jet and a military helicopter, he didn't convince me (or most liberals) that diversity results in poor performance, but he sure did unwittingly reveal the underpinnings of the conservative push against diversity ...Read more

Family guide to new movie releases
'DOG MAN'
Rated PG for some action and rude humor.
What it’s about: A half-man/half-dog cop patrols Ohkay City, fighting evil supervillains
The kid attractor factor: The silly humor and animation, plus familiarity with the book series.
Good lessons/bad lessons: Seeing the good in others might be able to help you see the good in yourself. ...Read more

Ex-etiquette: Handling tough questions about your past
Q. My breakup with my ex was messy, and I stayed away from dating for a couple of years. However, I’ve recently signed up on a dating app and I’ve started to date again. Unfortunately, the first question everyone wants to know is why did I break up with my ex. I don’t want to talk about it. He was abusive and almost killed me and he is now...Read more

Lori Borgman: A birthday bash at the burger joint
We blew out all the stops to celebrate the husband’s birthday with a last-minute meetup at McDonald’s. Do we know how to party or what?
Three carloads. Five adults. Six kids, all girls.
If we squeeze six into the bench against the wall that spans two tables and grab extra chairs, we can make it work. Kids squirrel around as adults take ...Read more

Quiet secrets and hidden lives shine in a story of redemption and connection
"Shy Creatures" is one of those rarities in literary fiction, a quiet celebration of the complex human interactions that form lasting genuine friendships and heartfelt relationships that are retained in golden memories. Award-winning British novelist Clare Chambers has written nine novels including Learning to Swim which won the 1999 Romantic ...Read more

In the search for lost women, a marshal finds herself
In Laurie L. Dove’s "Mask of the Deer Woman," Carrie Starr has hit rock bottom. A former Chicago police officer, she lost her job after her daughter was murdered and she emptied her gun into the back of the fleeing man she held responsible. Now, drinking and toking just to get through the day, she’s started the only job she could find, as ...Read more

Explore grief and healing in this literary dreamscape
The first time I spoke with author Humberto “Bear” Garcez, he was telling me about his new book based on very detailed recollections of one of his own dreams. That book is the recently released "The Blue in Your Eyes," a most unusual and intriguing novel that, just like dreams themselves, blends elements of reality with imagination and ...Read more

After childbirth came heart failure – and later, a new heart
Ebony Smith-Thomas was juggling the demands of a hungry 2-month-old boy while keeping her 11-year-old son and two teenage nieces entertained when her air conditioning went out.
The humidity of a St. Louis evening in May was too much to bear, so she packed up the kids and drove from the south side of town to her mom's house on the north.
All ...Read more

Editorial: TikTok lives on. So does its harmful effect on kids
TikTok went dark in the United States for a little while, but is now back online here thanks to a stay of execution from President Donald Trump. The newly inaugurated president seems to be working toward some sort of a deal to help TikTok comply with federal rules prohibiting foreign agents from owning and controlling social media platforms in ...Read more
Trampolines, Germs and the Kids Who Love Them
I hate trampolines.
Not because I consider the weird faces you make in midair unbecoming, not because I have a problem with spring-based athletic activities and not because I'm an enemy of fun in general.
I mostly blame my hatred on my kid's friend -- or my kid's friend's dad, to be more accurate.
The friend is a good kid, and a real boy's ...Read more

Can you bring kids inside bars in California? Liquor stores? Here's what state law says
SACRAMENTO, Calif. — Watching the big game at the bar? Run out of booze for your barbecue?
You might be tempted to pop into the nearest pub or liquor store with your kids in tow.
Is that actually legal in California?
“Are kids allowed in bars, or is it only in those that serve food?” one Reddit user asked Sacramento residents in 2023.
...Read more

Rand Paul wants to strip Planned Parenthood of funding over abortion, trans health care
U.S. Sen. Rand Paul, a Kentucky Republican, filed a bill Thursday to block all federal funds from being allocated to the reproductive health care organization Planned Parenthood.
Dubbed the “Defund Planned Parenthood Act,” the bill would simply require that “no federal funds may be made available to Planned Parenthood Federation of ...Read more

Debra-Lynn B. Hook: Snow day, New Orleans style
The giddy texts and videos came rolling in from my bundled-up sister in New Orleans on a historic day in the Big Easy.
“It’s snowing, it’s snowing, it’s snowing,” she whispered, her eyes wide in disbelief, as she stood on her front porch in a rarely worn winter hat and scarf.
In fact, it snowed on Tuesday in record amounts across ...Read more
Admitting the Truth About College Admissions
This week I was speaking to a group of K-12 educators about my usual: the need for more free time, free play, self-direction and real-world adventures/responsibilities in childhood if we want to raise happier, healthier kids.
A frustrated high school AP history teacher then raised his hand and asked: But what are we supposed to do?
Give less...Read more

Planned Parenthood of Illinois announces clinic closures amid statewide surge in abortion patients after the fall of Roe
CHICAGO — Citing a “financial shortfall,” Planned Parenthood of Illinois announced Wednesday – on the 52nd anniversary of Roe v. Wade – that it will be closing four clinics across the state, including one on Chicago’s South Side.
The health center shutdowns come as Illinois is already grappling with a surge in patients traveling ...Read more
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